DESTINY OF LOVE?…LIFE!!

DESTINY OF LOVE…LIFE!!

“That’s the funny thing about destiny. It happens whether you plan it or not. But, I think for the most part, if you’re really honest with yourself about what you want out of life, life gives it to you…”

-Ted Mosby (how I met your mother) 

Destiny! What is destiny?

Well everyone has their own version of perception as to what destiny means to them but ultimately they end up with the simple term “settling down = destiny”

On questioning a young person, where do you see yourself 10 years from now? Not everyone will admit to seeing themselves as “I see myself married with 2 kids and well settled”. This is the thought which lingers at the back of everyone’s head but they are too scared to agree this universal fact.

When we look at a clock our eyes instantly focus at the minute and hour needle while the second’s needle goes unnoticed. Hard fact is that at the end of the day it is the second’s hand which actually indicates that the clock is working fine.

Similarly Destiny is the clock where the hour and minute needle are the life and career respectively with the love playing the role of the second’s needle. Love is what keeps you focused towards your ultimate destiny and makes sure that at the end of the day no matter how bad or good your day turns out to be you will always have a safe place.

True love

“There is never a time or place for true love. It happens accidentally, in a heartbeat, in a single flashing, throbbing moment.” 
                                                                                            ― Sarah Dessen

According to me finding true love in the path towards destiny is the best encounter for any human, sometimes true love might be the reason for paving the path towards destiny in the first place. As the saying goes Love is in the air but it is important to find the right one who turns out to be a breath of fresh air.

There are too many people who are eagerly waiting to board the train towards destiny but very few who realize the importance of traveling along with “The one”.

Love is the most beautiful feeling on earth. It cannot be felt with just anyone they got to be the most special one.

Being in love brings a different perspective to each person’s life.

It floats you away to the zing world and keeps you on cloud 9at all times but this zing effect should be mutual, it cannot be forced or compelled

As the bible says,

““It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.”

                  -The Bible

Every man has a woman and every woman has a man destined for him/her, so do not be in a hurry to zap into the future. Take life one step at a time and take time to enjoy every moment within.

Life throws numerous options at you it is up to you to choose the right one, so be wise and not hasty in your decisions.

“It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.” 
             ― André Gide

The man/woman you stand at the altar with should be the one, the one who never leaves your hand at any circumstance. They are your soul mate so do not start your relationship with fake promises, be truthful …be frank… be transparent… create the bond well then take the next leap of faith.

“It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.” 
                       ― Friedrich Nietzsche

Marriage

Marriage is considered as one of the holy sacraments you cannot let that be ruined by a stranger that you had mistake for “the one”, so take your time.

Not every love ends in marriage and not every marriage ends with a happy note. But it doesn’t mean you can never have a happy ending. Believe it or not it does exist.  It is only in your hands to make it “happily ever after”.

Marriage is the one stop where you have to make the decision of who you’re going to travel along with for the rest of your life. So make the right choice else there is no point in regretting it later.

Now you might ask “what if I don’t find “the one” during my journey should I quit the journey? Well…. I would say no there is no need for you to get off because destiny is unpredictable you can never know when or how you would come across your life partner. You could probably land up there alone for all you know but hang in there don’t jump into conclusions yet, it could be an opportunity to realize that  “the one” has always been there right before your eyes after all, who you chose to ignore all the years that had gone by. Life is a journey that is best experienced with the right companion irrespective of how independent and strong you think or feel you are.  If you are still determined to give up on your search then just give in, after all everyone has a purpose to life and it means that you have a different tale to narrate to the rest of the world.

What is meant to be will always find its way!!

 - Chennai Ponnu